Fr. Andrew L. Struzzieri (1947-2020), a Catholic priest in the Diocese of Brooklyn & Queens, was my uncle.
As a young boy in Brooklyn, he attended CCD or Catholic after-school education. One day, without explaining the word, the teacher asked who thought they might have a vocation. As he put it, his arm “just shot up.” Later that day, he returned home and recounted the story to his mother as she drained the macaroni for dinner. He kept (as I now do) that scolapast’ displayed in his room with his Holy books as a sign that he had a calling, a mission in life.
After high school, he attended Brooklyn Cathedral Prep Seminary; however, during his studies, he experienced a crisis of faith and left the seminary. Through the Experiment in International Living, he spent time in India, and later, he took a job at Pan-Am Airlines, which enabled him to travel and experience the world.
Around this time, as he explained it to me, he was visiting a Charismatic group at Farleigh Dickinson University. As a friend prayed over him, he experienced a burning in his mouth – he received the gift of tongues.
Still, he was experiencing doubt and uncertainty. In prayer, he asked for a clear sign. His eyes closed, he opened the Bible and pointed to the word “presbyter” priest. Once again, his mission was clear.
He was ordained a priest on The Feast of Saint Francis, his patron, on October 4, 1975. He served as a Parochial Vicar at Our Lady of Mercy, Saint Matthew’s, and Our Lady of Charity, and as Pastor at Our Lady of Refuge, Saint Matthew’s (all in Brooklyn, NY), and Saint Claire’s in Rosedale Queens.
He gave me all of my sacraments, prayed over my aching ears as a child in tongues, and gave me my most-beloved childhood toy, my stuffed Franciscan monk. Uncle A had a silly sense of humor and the most wonderful, warm way about him. He always encouraged creativity, art, and self-expression. “Art, creativity… God is a CREATIVE God, and art and creativity are divine.”
There are many examples of simple kindnesses he offered others; a refuge, care, and counsel. He was an exceptionally gifted homilist and earned his Doctorate in Ministry.
In 2009, he was diagnosed with renal cell carcinoma, a disease he bravely fought for 11 years. Through all of that, I was by his side. There were times I slept at Sloan-Kettering and nearly every appointment I was with him.
He fought his disease with bravery, courage, and faith.
Finally, we learned in the Spring 2020 that doctors could not do anything else. Uncle was placed into the care of Calvary Hospice. And he had an extraordinary summer. Fifty years later, he reconnected with the friend who had prayed over him at Farleigh Dickinson. Friends and family came to visit him from near and far. We went on many walks and talks.
Then, about a month before he died, I visited him one day. I knew he was experiencing some anxiety. He asked me to stay over at the rectory. I did, and I never went home.
During that month, we had a lot of laughs and a lot of prayers, and a lot of good talks. We were cleaning out a closet one night because he knew he was dying and wanted to make sure he’d gone through everything. And as we were looking through old files, letters he’d written on behalf of people, old paper work and the like, he asked me to write about his life; not just his cancer, not just his ministry, but all of it, his struggles, his doubts, his journey. I promised him I would.
His last few days on this earth were mainly beautiful. He had a great meditation on Jesus. He had visits from friends, old friends, and family. We even stayed up one night till 1 am eating ice cream sundaes. Finally, he took a turn on his journey on The Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross – how fitting. A Monstrance was placed on the windowsill, and his beloved parishioners gathered outside his window, singing.
Around 3 am that night, we were administering his meds. My husband had joined me. He opened his eyes and said, “Chiara, I want to go home, but I need you to drive me; I can’t drive anymore.” I told him that was okay; that there were people at home excited he was coming. That he should squeeze my hand, and we’d go. He squeezed my hand hard, closed his eyes, and went back to sleep. Those were the last words he said to me.
He died two days later, on September 18, 2020, at 12:08 pm, as the Angelus bells rang the hymn “Now Thank We all Our God.” He was 73 years old.
I have yet to start writing about him, but creating this page for him, on my website is a beginning. I miss him more than words can say.
After he died, a friend and mentee of Fr. Andy’s set up a memorial endowment in his name to help immigrants, refugees, and those in need of one-time small emergency grants.
At St. Martin de Porres parish in Philadelphia, PA, there is the Fr. Andy Struzzieri Memorial Library. Many of his books are available to read by the public.
In the summer of 2022, Queens Borough President Donovan Richards and Councilwoman Selvena Brooks-Adams re-named a street in Queens for Fr. Andy.